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Friday, February 3, 2017

Book Review #12: HOW TO NOT BE AN IDIOT WHEN YOU GET DIVORCED by JAESON D. RAU


TITLE:  HOW TO NOT BE AN IDIOT WHEN YOU GET DIVORCED
Author: JAESON D. RAU
Publisher:  AUTHORHOUSE
Publication Date:  27 JUNE 2014
Genre:  SELF-HELP
Available online at AMAZON and BARNES AND NOBLE

Interesting Take on How to Proceed After Getting a Divorce

Jaeson D. Rau is not some licensed or certified expert on the aftermath of a divorce and all that.  Nope.  He’s just a normal divorce’ who wants to tell his fellow divorce’s about the losses and pains a man goes through, as well as his children, when you the husband and father, divorces your wife.  Here’s a little breakdown of what this novella entails:

·         Health: yes, your health is important.  And that means watching what you eat and maintaining your weight…
·         Kids should be your #1 priority: Do keep in mind that your kids suffer the most during a divorce, not just you and/or your spouse.
·         Why now?  Please get over your dilemma about why you went through a divorce and blaming your spouse.  Stop that and move on!

There are many other informative chapters of this book but I won’t spoil the fun for you.  Just take it from Mr. Rau, you are the only key to your own happiness as well as your kids’ too.  You need to step up and stop a cycle that you may have started or that you are following from men and women before you.  Mr. Rau stresses the importance of a father figure in a child’s life and how when that is missing a whole lot of problems may occur like teen pregnancy, drugs, suicide, etc. 

So when you’re looking for help and or guidance after you’ve just gone through a divorce, don’t think twice about getting this book.  It is a sincere, short read written in a comprehensible way that will serve as your go-to companion in your separation dilemma.  As Mr. Rau’s words go: “I wrote this book because we need to start a conversation…and that conversation needs to be honest and open about how truly detrimental divorce is on our current society, future society, and the ecosystem,” he is absolutely correct.  We need to know how to treat divorce and its consequences because it’s been proven to cause a lot of damage to society and for generations to come. 



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